Rupi Kaur is an Indian-Canadian poet, artist, and author who has become a powerful voice in the world of contemporary poetry. Her work is often described as raw and honest, and her words have the power to bring comfort, insight, and healing to those who read them. From her debut book, Milk and Honey, to her latest collection, The Sun and Her Flowers, Kaur’s work has been embraced by millions of readers around the world. Here are some of the most powerful quotes of Rupi Kaur.
“You were born with wings, why prefer to crawl through life?”
This quote is a reminder to us that we have the power within us to do extraordinary things. It encourages us to take risks and to be courageous in the pursuit of our dreams.
“You don’t have to be positive all the time. It’s perfectly okay to feel sad, angry, annoyed, frustrated, scared and anxious. Having feelings doesn’t make you a negative person. It makes you human.”
This quote speaks to the importance of accepting and embracing your emotions, instead of trying to suppress them. It’s a valuable reminder that it’s ok to feel a range of emotions, and that it’s perfectly normal.
“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern.”
This quote speaks to the beauty of resilience and the strength that can be found in adversity. It’s a reminder that we are all capable of overcoming our struggles and emerging from them with newfound strength.
“The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself.”
This quote speaks to the idea that true happiness and fulfillment come from embracing who we are and striving to be our best selves. It encourages us to let go of the need to be perfect and to instead focus on our personal growth and development.
“Silence is a source of great strength.”
This quote speaks to the power of taking a step back and allowing yourself the time and space to process your thoughts and emotions. It encourages us to take a break from the noise and chaos of the world and to find our inner strength and peace.
Rupi Kaur’s words have the power to bring comfort, insight, and healing to those who read them. We hope that these quotes have inspired you to reflect on your own life and to strive to be the best version of yourself.
Rupi Kaur’s work speaks to the human experience and touches on topics that range from love, heartache, and gender, to mental health, identity, and more. Here are more powerful and touching quotes of Rupi Kaur that capture her unique perspective.
A lot of Indian fathers don’t know how to show affection. My parents really do love me, even though my dad has never been able to say those words to me.
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Before I begin to write, I listen to music that inspires me. I listen to folk Punjabi music, sufi music.
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Being that my parents and I were immigrants to Canada, I didn’t have the most lavish life growing up.
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Feeling ‘ugly’ or ‘unattractive’ seeps into your life like poison, and it affects everything. Feeling worthless does the same. We internalise these limitations, and it takes an internal revolution to get rid of them.
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For me, the power of the poetry in ‘Milk and Honey’ is the feeling you get after finished reading the poem. It’s the emotion you feel once you’ve read the last word, and that is only possible when the diction is easy, and you don’t get stuck on every other word, you don’t know what the word means.
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For some of my young female readers, it will be the first time they will have seen a Punjabi author be successful in the West. Because I’m dealing with topics that aren’t always easily discussed, I know they will look up to me, because I would have done the same. So I just want to make sure I do right by them, wherever this takes me.
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Growing up, I naturally embraced who I was, but I was always battling with myself. So I spent half my time being proud of being a woman and the other half completely hating it.
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How do you redefine love when your idea of love is something that’s so violent? When your idea of passion is anger, how do you fix that?
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I always wrote stories, but I do remember a particular moment in middle school where I became passionate about essay writing.
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I can go to all these cool places around the world, but when we land at YYZ, I’m like, ‘Yes! It’s flat. It’s concrete. I’m okay with this; my people are here.’
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I can sit down with my sisters, and they can talk about my body in a certain way, and I will laugh about it with them. That’s such a comfortable and loving relationship. But if a stranger I meet in a party makes the same comment, depending on their tone, that’s not okay.
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I did not start out thinking I’m going to become a feminist poet. It was a tag I was given.
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I don’t fit into the age, race, or class of a bestselling poet.
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I feel social media can be very distracting, unhealthy, and harmful to one’s self-confidence. I don’t even log on to it on my phone except when I post something on Instagram.
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I felt voiceless for so long, I wasn’t ever able to say what I felt out loud. I didn’t know how to say it. Posting online presented itself as a comfortable medium. I could say what I wanted to say in a way I still felt comfortable. Whenever, however I wanted to.
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I grew up thinking I was going to change the world, but not because I was treated like a special snowflake. It’s a silly label. People are starving. We need to feed them. That’s the end of the conversation.
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I have always been a fan of Salvador Dali, but Amrita Sher-Gil, who was an Indian-Hungarian painter, is another favourite. She was painting Indian women, and, growing up here, I’d never seen anyone paint Indian women, so that was really incredible to see a painting of someone who looks like you. I think that has a lot of impact on you.
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I haven’t had the opportunity to study visual art, but it was always my first love when it came to artistic expression. I started drawing and experimenting with visual art when I was 5.
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I like B.C. because it’s so beautiful, but I think Toronto’s the greatest place because every corner of the world is here.
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I love Roald Dahl, Sharon Olds, Nizar Qabbani, who is a poet, and Junot Diaz.
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I realize I’m blessed to have the luxury of being a full-time writer. Not many people have that.
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I sat with myself one day and asked, ‘Who is in those prestigious literary circles? Do they represent me? Do they appreciate the topics I write about and the style in which I write? Do those gatekeepers let a demographic like mine through the door?’ And the answer was no.
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I think I finally overcame my self-esteem and confidence issues at around 20.
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I think I only started to speak to people in grade four.
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I think social media is… really cool in the sense that I don’t think that a writer like me would’ve found a readership if maybe Instagram wasn’t there.
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I used to submit to anthologies and magazines when I was a student – but I knew I was never going to be picked up.
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I want to create a collection, almost like a trilogy of sorts. Whereas ‘Milk and Honey’ was very much like holding a mirror up to yourself, the second book is turning that mirror around and fixing it on the world. The book is a reflection of the times we are in.
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I want to leave behind a literary legacy.
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I was always writing for myself. I wrote what I needed to write and hear – that’s what makes it powerful.
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I was born in India, and we came from a poor family and lived in a rural village. My dad came over to Canada as a refugee, and years later, we were able to join him.
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I wasn’t entitled to dream so big. The idea of me being a writer wasn’t even possible in my mind. Even when I began to write and first published, I couldn’t call myself a writer.
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I wasn’t trying to write a book; it wasn’t even in my vision. I was posting stuff online just because it made me feel relieved – as a way of getting things off my chest.
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I won the speech competition in class, and I always say this was my first ‘spoken word performance.’ It was the first time I got on stage and recited something. I fell in love with the stage at the age of 12.
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I would give anything to sing like Beyonce or Adele. I’ve said many times to my friends that if I could sing like them, I would give up poetry and writing.
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I write from the various experiences I live. Not every poem comes from my personal experience, though. It could be something that a friend lived, or a person from my community here, or a woman anywhere around the world.
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If I body-shame a woman, it is more a reflection of me being critical of my body, me not being able to keep up to certain standards I have, and so making sure that the women around me feel the same way.
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I’m a brown girl from a Punjabi pind raised in Toronto. I don’t expect literary critics and purists to understand the nuances of my experiences, and the experiences of the people around me… And my tradition holds that there is a magic in the written word. So how I write, what I write of, and why I write all comes naturally.
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In high school, I started saving up to get a nose job, which is so ridiculous. I had this job at Tim Hortons, and I was trying to save up $10,000 for a nose job.
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It was tough to cope with the pressure of having to talk about menstruation, but now with ‘Newsweek’ splashing it as the cover story, I thing the point I wished to make has found its mark.
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I’ve been thinking a lot about the journey of my parents – just seeing the sacrifices they’ve made to allow me to do what I do. How much of a difference their sacrifices have made through the generations.
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Just because someone tells you they love you, it doesn’t mean they actually do.
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Milk and Honey’ was written with me being honest to myself, kind of pulling at the things that I hear the most and saying that out loud, and you know, that thing that we hear the most is most universal, and so that rings true with all folks. The language used in the poetry is extremely, extremely accessible.
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My dad studies and practices homeopathy and Ayurveda medicine. He’s a strong believer in both honey and milk as forms of healing. Honey is the one food that does not die. It does not expire. Growing up, he’d always be mixing up almonds or turmeric or gram flower with milk to cure a cough or a cold.
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My favourite character in fiction was probably either James from ‘James and the Giant Peach’ or Ender from ‘Ender’s Game.’ They were just ordinary people who were living under various amounts of struggle, and just to follow their journeys and see them break out of that and live extraordinary lives – I think that gave me a lot of hope as a kid.
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My gut is so strong. I feel like I have a lot of books in me, and they’re going to come out because I said so. It’s going to happen.
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My heart is beating, and I’m breathing, and nothing anybody has ever done has changed that.
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My parents didn’t allow me to do all the things the cool kids could do. I was quiet, reserved, and at some points, taken complete advantage of simply because of my sex and gender. For a while, in high school, I was so deep into self-hate.
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My writing is a product of how I would interact with things that have happened to me or things that have not happened to me but have happened to somebody else.
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People like that I wrote a book – that’s cute, but oh, making a business out of it? That’s not nice.
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Poetry and art are key influences in changing how we look at taboos.
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Really, at the end of the day, the only thing you can control is yourself; the only person you can truly educate is yourself. You have to redefine what beauty is to you so you can’t be affected by what people are saying.
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Social media has been such a big platform for my success. But it can also be a toxic place.
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The pain that all people experience in life and the light that helps them champion through it all – it’s their lives and their stories and their love and will to keep living that moves me to write.
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The topics just kind of come to me. If they are relevant, it’s because they’re happening in the world around me, and it’s affecting me. Poetry is my way of dealing with it.
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The trauma of South Asian people escapes the confines of our own times. We’re not just healing from what’s been inflicted onto us as children… it is generations of pain embedded into our souls.
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The way a small child might dream of visiting Disneyland, I dreamed of writing books. Never did I think my poems would become that.
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There have been articles saying that all women need to read my book. I ask, why not all men? In fact, that would be even more valuable because we women want to sit down with men and tell them – this is how we feel, this is what we go through.
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There was no market for poetry about trauma, abuse, loss, love, and healing through the lens of a Punjabi-Sikh immigrant woman.
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Truth, honesty, empowerment – it’s what I want for myself and my readers.
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We are not outraged by blood. We see blood all the time. Blood is pervasive in movies, television, and video games. Yet, we are outraged by the fact that one openly discusses bleeding from an area that we try to claim ownership over.
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When I was little, my dad told me about Anandpur Sahib and the court of Guru Gobind Singh. That we came from a tradition of poets, warriors and artists who created when it was illegal to create… we’re groomed to be reckless in the defense of what we feel is right.
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When I’d hang out with guy friends, I’d say things like ‘I just don’t get along with other girls.’ Just so they could think I was cooler, you know? Shamelessly trying to level myself up by putting other women down. God it’s so embarrassing to admit, but it’s important cause I want people to know about the growth. That I’m not perfect.
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When things get better, there’s a swing to the pendulum where things get worse for others.
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When writing for the page, the focus is on the design – how the words appear on the page. I try to make it as direct and simple as possible.
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Why are brown women bullying brown women for body hair? Why are brown women bullying brown women for the same traits we all have?
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Why are we so terrified of a natural process that allows for life to be brought into this world? Why do we scramble to hide our tampons when we pull them out of our purses?
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With immigrant parents, they’ve had to sacrifice so much to survive, and they’re trying to preserve the culture they lost, so there are just so many boundaries.
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You have to really understand that although certain memories or stories make you sad, you are not sad. Pull yourself out from that emotion and remember that.
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You’re beautiful’ was the compliment I craved so much. I didn’t care if people called me smart or innovative – it was the number-one compliment I gave out to other women hoping it was given back to me. I heard people saying it to my best friends. It was the one I wanted to hear more than anything else.
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In conclusion, Rupi Kaur’s quotes are full of wisdom, insight and emotion. Her words offer comfort and strength, while challenging us to think deeply about our lives and our relationships with others. Her words are a reminder that life is not always easy, but that we should always strive to be our best selves. Despite the difficulties we face, Kaur’s quotes provide a source of optimism and inspiration, encouraging us to stay strong and find the courage to move forward. As Kaur herself says, “I want to remind you that you are capable of anything, no matter how small you feel.”